cougar phenomenon is a rather strange phenomenon which is taking root in these last days. It is a sin but many people will tell you that it is okay to do it but it has serious consequences not only on the institution of marriage but to the people involved.
first, we all know that God created Adam first, then He created Eve later. This obviously suggests that Adam was older than Eve and that is the pattern of life. God made women the weaker vessel on purpose.
The danger of cougar relationships is that , to a large extent, it interchanges the roles of a man and woman or husband and wife. Naturally a man should find a wife but the reverse is un natural.
This is dangerous because God gave each their own responsibilities even in a family. I do not suggest that husbands should treat their wives as slaves or boss them but rather each should have their own responsibility both in society and at home.
People in a cougar relationship even if they get married they will not last long because of interchanging the role of a wife to that of a husband.
The greatest cause of divorce is that married people fail to understand to perform their respective roles. most husbands forget that their wives are only helpers. If we learn that our wives are helpers, then it suggests that all work is to be done by men but wives only help execute a man's job. Let me state here clearly that apart from child bearing, all other work is supposed to be done by husbands but women only help where they can and as a sign of respect and submission to husbands.
It is wrong for husbands to think that some work belongs to women. learn this: ALL WORK BELONGS TO MEN. This includes daily home chores, cooking, bathing kids, shopping, making the bed, laundry, etc in addition to the professional/ business work.
The men should not lounge because all work belongs to them!
When men failed to understand this, the women have taken it upon themselves to work and now they are marrying men and soon women will become the men of this generation. This is severed by the fact that sodomy and lesbianism are trying to take root so that society totally gets messed up.
It is not right for a woman to think she is a man. let the men learn to work and stop looking for easy sources of income. Let the older women respect themselves not to let kids play on them. Naturally God made women in such a way that they mature early but boys take longer to attain the same level of maturity. so if a mature lady gets into a relationship with a young boy then how will he ever understand her? most do it just for quenching lust but it is a sin like all other terrible sins.
do not get tempted to get involved with sugar mums because it is against established principles of human nature. These evil shameless mature people who are attracted to younger people are no different from pedophiles.
do not try cougar, it has terrible consequences.
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